My 21st Birthday

Lifestyle & Cosy Joy
Written By Cerys Roberts

Edited April 2020

I’d like to begin this post by thanking everyone that made my 21st birthday special. Whether you were with me to celebrate, gave me a card or even wished me a happy birthday on Facebook, it all meant a lot to me.

I’d originally planned to write about all of the funny stories and chats that we had. But, honestly, I think that it’s better to keep them between those that were there. However, I will share a few things and some funny photos that I’m more than happy to share…enjoy!

On my actual birthday we went for food at the Baltic Market. It’s one of my favourite places to go and offers something for pretty much everyone. I had a bratwurst hot dog from Get Wurst and it was amazing! Although this is the only photo that I managed to get…

Thank you Jack for this really flattering photo of me…

Thank you Jack for this really flattering photo of me…

Obviously, I couldn’t go to the Baltic Market and not have halloumi from Hafla Hafla. I’m going to be so sad when they’re no longer there. For dessert a number of us had hot cookie dough from Midnight Delivery. Quite frankly it’s one of the best things that I’ve ever had!!

To find out which traders are currently at the Baltic Market, click here.

Look how happy we all were after stuffing our faces

Look how happy we all were after stuffing our faces

The day after my birthday we went ‘out-out’. A group of my friends came over for party food and drinks before heading into town.

Big shout out to Matt and Jack for decorating the living room while I got ready, I loved it!!

On the night out there was tears and bickering like always. But more importantly there was fun and laughter. I had the best birthday and I’m so happy that I got to share it with this amazing bunch! Although a number of my male friends tried to steal my boyfriend off me, so thanks guys…hahaha!

I think the best thing to do is just share some of the weird and wonderful photos of that night. And well done to the boys for smashing the karaoke, I loved it!

*Most of these photos were taken on a film camera, hence why I look even paler than usual. Who knew that could happen?

 

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