A Letter To My Body - Pregnancy Edition
Dear body,
Here we are again.
The third time you’ve carried life. The third time you’ve stretched, softened, shifted and changed in ways I couldn’t fully prepare for.
I’ll be honest… this pregnancy feels different.
Maybe it’s because I know more now. I know what’s coming. I know how my body will change, how tired I’ll feel, how emotions can sit closer to the surface than usual. I know the aches, the heaviness, the moments where I catch my reflection and barely recognise the body looking back at me.
But I also know something else now that I didn’t always know before. You are doing something extraordinary. Three times you’ve grown a tiny heartbeat into a whole human. Three times you’ve adapted, protected, nourished and held space for new life. That isn’t small. That isn’t ordinary. That is powerful.
I’ll admit, I don’t always treat you kindly.
Sometimes I focus on the stretch marks that appear where skin once felt smooth. Sometimes I notice the softness where strength used to feel more visible. Sometimes I miss the body I once knew so easily.
But today I want to speak to you differently.
Thank you.
Thank you for the sleepless nights when hormones race through my veins.
Thank you for the exhaustion that reminds me you are working constantly behind the scenes.
Thank you for the way you expand, stretch and make room for the tiny life growing inside.
You are not the same body you were years ago. But you are wiser. You have carried babies. You have recovered. You have navigated postpartum fog, sleepless nights and the quiet rebuilding that happens after birth. You have done hard things before and you will do them again.
This time, I promise to try and be gentler with you. To nourish you. To listen when you need rest. To stop expecting you to look like a version of yourself that existed in another season of life.
Because this season… motherhood, pregnancy, growing our family… is not about shrinking back into an old shape.
It’s about honouring the incredible things you are capable of.
So thank you, body.
For carrying me through it all.
Love,
Me (Charlie)
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Hi, I’m Charlie, toddler mum x2, currently pregnant with baby number three, jewellery retail management girl by day and skincare & wellness lover always.
I’m here to be a reminder that you don’t have to have it all together to start feeling better. No extremes, no pressure just honest conversations, small changes, and support for women who are trying to find their way back to themselves.
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Here we are again.
The third time you’ve carried life. The third time you’ve stretched, softened, shifted and changed in ways I couldn’t fully prepare for.