Confidence & Identity

Let’s explore self-acceptance, body confidence and embracing who you truly are. Here you'll find stories, advice and reflections to help you feel comfortable in your own skin and proud of the person you’re becoming.

The Beginner’s Guide To Self-Acceptance – Part 2
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The Beginner’s Guide To Self-Acceptance – Part 2

Being okay, and even happy, in the body you’re in still has such a distance to go before being seen as ‘normal’ and ‘socially acceptable’. I don’t particularly care about these things, but they can make things a heck of a lot easier.

Self-acceptance is definitely a journey - & it can be a particularly long one – but it’s such an important one. Our bodies are such incredible things that help us live our lives each day. And our mind is even more wonderful – the ideas, creativity, imagination and so much more that it allows us to do is quite frankly mind-blowing.

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How to Be Your Own Best Friend
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How to Be Your Own Best Friend

It’s kinda scary to think about, but the only person that will definitely be with you your whole life is yourself. So, it’s so important to find ways to learn to accept & even love yourself.

I created this blog to help keep me accountable on my own journey and, in-turn, help you lovely person reading this post. You Are Wonderful!

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A Letter To My Younger Self
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A Letter To My Younger Self

I’m not sure which specific aged Cerys I’m writing to. But I guess it’ll be relevant for 1-year old Cerys to 21-year old Cerys (I know that I’m currently 21, but I change and grow every day and always need a boost). I’m sure that I’ll look back on this letter in years to come and still say the same things to myself.

The way that I’ve one this is just by being sat by myself with some breakfast and YouTube and just writing down all of the thoughts and feelings that come to mind – hoping that some of it will be semi-coherent. So here goes…

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How I’m Learning To Love Myself
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How I’m Learning To Love Myself

I’ve never been confident about how I look. I’ve always had at least one thing that I’m insecure about and it would constantly play on my mind. I know that basically everyone has insecurities about their bodies and how they look; but that doesn’t make it healthy.

It’s so important that we learn to love and appreciate our bodies; no matter who you are or what you look like. Self-love is vital.

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The Life Of Dating…From Someone Who’s Never Actually Dated Anyone
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The Life Of Dating…From Someone Who’s Never Actually Dated Anyone

Growing up, I never dated anyone or had any sort of “proper relationship”. But it didn’t really bother me that much.

Going on a night out with the girls often consisted of flirting with some guys. But it typically just ended up in creating a bigger group to drink, dance and have fun with.

It wasn’t until I had finished my first year of uni that I went on an actual date (and I’ve currently only been on three altogether).

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